Why That Worked #23: Dadville—The New Rules of Being a Great Dad

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Jun 11, 2025

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Jon McLaughlin

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Dave Barnes

Dave Barnes and John McLaughlin, musicians and co-hosts of the Dadville podcast, dive into the evolving landscape of fatherhood. They challenge the stereotype of dads as bumbling figures, stressing the need for active and heartfelt involvement in parenting. Their conversation includes the importance of mindful communication and how small changes in tone can positively impact children. They share personal anecdotes, emphasizing vulnerability and teamwork in creating nurturing family dynamics, ultimately redefining the role of modern fathers.

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ANECDOTE

Low Bar for Dad Praise

John McLaughlin once got praised just for pushing his kids in a double stroller on the street.
This highlights how societal expectations for fathers often set the bar very low.

INSIGHT

Dad Confidence Crumbles Fast

Becoming a dad quickly reveals how little you know despite previous confidence.
The responsibility of caring for a child's life reshapes a man's role significantly.

ADVICE

Create Family Vision and Rules

Set clear rules and vision for your family to define your role as a dad.
This structures your contribution and helps you feel actively involved and important at home.

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Dads often get a bad rap. In sitcoms, commercials, and even day-to-day culture, they’re typically cast as bumbling sidekicks or lovable oafs who mean well but don’t quite get it right. When that narrative takes root, it can be easy for fathers to shrug and settle for doing the bare minimum (especially when they get praise for just pushing a stroller down the street). But kids need more. And deep down, every dad knows he was made for more. So what does it look like to embrace fatherhood with purpose, presence, and even a little swagger?

In this special Father’s Day episode, Don and Kyle sit down with Dave Barnes and John McLaughlin, hosts of the hit podcast Dadville. Together, they explore the most important messages a father can send his kids. They break down why dad-messaging matters, what it looks like in the real world, and how even small changes in tone or presence can echo for generations. If you’re a dad, or want to be one, listen in for a refreshing take on what it really means to show up for your family.

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