Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 990
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Oct 21, 2025 Imani Askew-Shabazz, Partnerships Director at Plan C, joins to discuss critical issues regarding access to medication abortion. She highlights the current threats to mifepristone access and the importance of telehealth abortion options. Imani also details useful resources for ordering abortion pills by mail and protective shield laws for clinicians. In a lighter vein, Dan Savage tackles intriguing relationship queries, including age disclosure and navigating boundaries within a paid submissive dynamic.
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AI's 'Hard To Get' Enables Persistent Prompts
- ChatGPT's previous 'hard to get' behavior masked adult erotica but encouraged repeated prompting to bypass refusals.
- Dan warns this pattern risks normalizing persistence after refusal and other harmful consent cues.
Disclose Your Age When Discussing Futures
- Tell your partner your age when discussing future plans like having kids; omission is deceitful.
- Dan recommends proactively disclosing age now that the relationship includes birthdays and future conversations.
Avoid Formalizing Paid Power-Exchange With Red Flags
- Don't formalize a paid slave-like arrangement with someone who repeatedly violates boundaries.
- Dan advises cutting the needy, boundary-violating man loose after one last scene and payment.