The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma} Ep. 145: Calm the Chaos- a Transformative Framework for Parenting
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Aug 8, 2023 Dayna Abraham, author of 'Calm the Chaos,' shares her journey from sibling to parent of challenging children with vulnerable nervous systems. She discusses her transformative framework for parenting, emphasizing that children’s uniqueness should be celebrated. Dayna highlights the need for emotional connection over rigid academic success and reflects on her decade-long growth in navigating parenting challenges. With practical strategies, she empowers parents to build a supportive community and nurture their child’s emotional well-being.
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Dayna's Background
- Dayna Abraham's brother had explosive behavior, giving her early exposure to challenging behaviors.
- As a teacher, she preferred students with behavioral issues, believing she was well-equipped to handle them as a parent.
Son's Struggles
- Dayna's son experienced escalating behavioral challenges, leading to school suspensions and a difficult encounter with school staff.
- This prompted Dayna to quit her job and homeschool him, prioritizing his self-worth and understanding.
Framework Development
- Dayna realized that addressing her son's challenges wasn't about finding one missing piece, but integrating various approaches effectively.
- This led to developing a framework with core elements: connection, understanding, empowerment, and self-care.
