The Dr. Psych Mom Show
with clinical psychologist
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten Monday Morning Quarterbacking Of Sex: Why The Recap Convo Is A Huge Turnoff To Women
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Feb 2, 2025 Discover why post-sex conversations can be a major turnoff for women. The discussion reveals how 'Monday morning quarterbacking' damages intimacy and offers insights into better communication. Learn strategies for expressing preferences without the pressure of recap discussions. Delve into the psychological roots of these awkward moments and uncover ways to enhance romantic interactions for a more fulfilling relationship.
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Alternative Communication
- Explore shared activities like quizzes or podcasts about sex to open communication.
- Discuss these resources when relaxed, creating a safe space for exploration, not pressure.
Real-Time Feedback
- Ask for real-time feedback during intimacy with open-ended questions.
- Encourage her to "show you" her preferences, making it less about critique and more about discovery.
Hidden Dissatisfaction
- Women might fake enjoyment during sex, even with partners they love, due to incompatibility.
- Many women believe men's sexual styles are unchangeable, limiting their feedback and leading to internalized frustration.