Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth 2205: Why Dating Sucks & How to Fix It With Adam Lane Smith
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Nov 13, 2023 
In this insightful conversation, Adam Lane Smith, a relationship psychology expert and attachment specialist, breaks down the complexities of modern dating. He discusses the pitfalls of dating apps and how they often lead to disconnection. Adam emphasizes the importance of understanding your attachment style and offers the 'three-date method' for better filtering potential partners. He also highlights the value of building a vibrant social life to enhance romantic connections. Get ready for practical advice to navigate the dating landscape!
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Modern Dating Sucks
- Modern dating struggles because society lacks shared values and promotes fear-based media.
- This creates disconnection and makes finding a compatible partner more challenging.
Obsession with Being Interesting
- People try to appear interesting to compensate for feeling alone and exhausted.
- Attachment issues lead to seeking validation through external stimulation rather than genuine connection.
Dating App Strategy
- Use dating apps strategically, but be mindful of their limitations.
- They primarily focus on looks and stimulation, not long-term compatibility.