

The Cost of Perfection: Understanding Internalized Ableism in ADHD
9 snips Mar 31, 2025
The hosts dive into internalized ableism and its impact on individuals with ADHD. They discuss how societal pressures can deter necessary accommodations, emphasizing self-compassion and grace. With relatable stories, they explore adapting to personal limitations and the balancing act between environmental concerns and mental health. The conversation highlights the importance of smart choices and embracing imperfections for well-being. Listeners are encouraged to manage expectations and accept their unique needs, prioritizing what truly supports their productivity.
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Permission for Imperfect Solutions
- Give yourself permission to use imperfect solutions when needed.
- Accommodations can support daily functioning, especially during challenging times.
Internalized Ableism and Accommodations
- Internalized ableism prevents us from accommodating our needs.
- We fear judgment for using supports that improve functioning.
The ADHD Tax
- Dusty discusses advising clients on spending wisely, considering the "ADHD tax."
- She gives an example of a costly gym membership going unused.