
A Slight Change of Plans Michael Lewis and Maya Talk “The Other Side of Change”
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Jan 27, 2026 Michael Lewis, bestselling author and onstage interviewer, sits down with Maya Shankar, a cognitive scientist who studies how people navigate major life shifts. They explore identity loss, how diverse changes share common psychological patterns, and stories of transformation from amnesia to locked-in syndrome. The conversation includes audience Q&A about parenting for unpredictable futures.
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Early Identity Loss And A New Path
- Maya lost her violin career at 15 after a hand injury and grieved the loss of her identity tied to music.
- Her father told her to explore broadly that summer, which led her to cognitive science and reshaped her path.
Different Changes Share One Psychology
- Different surface changes share a common underlying psychology around identity, uncertainty, and grief.
- Maya argues solutions and lessons transfer across types of change, not just within categories like illness or divorce.
Locked-In Syndrome Reveals People-Pleasing
- Olivia contacted Maya after surviving a brainstem stroke that left her with locked-in syndrome and communicated via blinks.
- Maya spent years interviewing Olivia and discovered the core struggle was relinquishing people-pleasing when she could no longer curate others' impressions.














