The Dr. John Delony Show

I Got Drunk and Slapped My Girlfriend

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Sep 3, 2025
A caller grapples with the aftermath of slapping his girlfriend while drunk, leading to a powerful discussion on accountability and the impact of alcohol on relationships. Another segment dives into the challenges faced by a Navy family during deployments, emphasizing emotional support and communication. Parents explore the tricky dynamics of adult children living at home while navigating independence. The importance of self-care for caregivers and open dialogue about intimacy in relationships are also explored, along with insights on fostering emotional connections.
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INSIGHT

Alcohol Reveals Hidden Parts

  • Alcohol often peels back social masks and reveals suppressed impulses or 'a dragon' people hide.
  • A one-off blackout that produces violence usually signals deeper pathology or repression, not pure accident.
ADVICE

Take A 60-Day Accountability Break

  • Do commit to at least 60 days of separation and intensive work if you hit someone while intoxicated.
  • Do accept accountability and expect consequences while you pursue sustained therapy and sobriety.
ADVICE

Choose In-Person Therapy For Violence

  • Do see a therapist in-person rather than only online for serious violent incidents.
  • Do recognize that school counseling may trigger institutional reporting and consequences.
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