Big Think Why modern America creates fragile children | Jonathan Haidt
Oct 10, 2025
In a thought-provoking discussion, Jonathan Haidt, a social psychologist and ethical leadership professor at NYU Stern, explores the fragility of Gen Z. He argues that increased parental supervision and social media have led to moral dependency, reducing kids' problem-solving skills. Haidt emphasizes the importance of teaching critical thinking and cognitive behavioral therapy to help youth manage emotions and navigate identity politics. He advocates for fostering common humanity over divisive narratives to promote inclusivity in education and society.
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Gen Z Lost Independent Play
- Gen Z (born ~1995+) spent less time in independent social activities and more time on devices.
- Jonathan Haidt links this shift to reduced free play and greater adult supervision, creating moral dependency.
Overprotection Breeds Fragility
- Overprotection from insults, teasing, and exclusion makes children more fragile and less able to self-solve problems.
- Haidt argues this fragility shows up when students reach college and demand more adult intervention.
Free-Range Kids Example
- Lenore Skenazy let her nine-year-old ride the New York City subway and he thrived on the independence.
- Haidt uses this example to show how denying childhood independence removes learning opportunities.
