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The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast

Episode 190: Two Levels of Self-Differentiation

Aug 29, 2022
10:47

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Quick takeaways

  • Functional differentiation involves managing our responses and self-regulating, while basic differentiation addresses underlying anxieties and promotes resilience.
  • Non-anxious leaders should prioritize basic differentiation by taking responsibility for themselves, understanding their family of origin, and cultivating healthy self-definitions to create lasting change in systems.

Deep dives

Two Levels of Self Differentiation

In this podcast episode, Dr. Michael Kerr discusses two levels of self differentiation: functional and basic. Functional differentiation refers to a change in functioning, such as someone who decides to stop drinking heavily. While this type of change helps us to function more effectively, it does not address the underlying anxieties. On the other hand, basic differentiation is seen as progress, as it involves dealing with the underlying anxieties and becoming more resilient. This level of differentiation allows us to better manage challenges and triggers for symptomatic behavior, and it is achieved through doing our own family of origin work and taking non-anxious stands with those who make us anxious.

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