Java with Juli - Conversations About God, Sex, & You 3 Myths We Believe About "Being One" In Marriage, #567
May 19, 2025
Hannah Nitz, co-host and seasoned marriage expert, shares her 15 years of experience navigating the complexities of marital oneness. They tackle the myth that becoming one means mirroring each other, emphasizing love for individuality instead. The conversation dives into the importance of trust and acceptance over the desire for change, highlighting how disagreements can coexist within a united partnership. With insights on balancing differences, especially in parenting, they present marriage as a transformative journey of personal growth and mutual support.
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Oneness Doesn't Require Agreement
- Healthy oneness in marriage does not mean always agreeing with your spouse.
- Couples often disagree on up to 70% of issues, and that's normal.
Preserving Identity in Oneness
- Marriage involves three parts: the husband, the wife, and their union.
- Healthy oneness preserves individual identities rather than blending them out completely.
Spouses Don't Complete Each Other
- Believing your spouse completes you puts too much pressure on one relationship.
- Marriages often fail early when expectations are unrealistic that one person fulfills all needs.
