The High Performance Podcast What the No.1 Brain Surgeon Taught Us About Delivering Hard Truths
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Aug 13, 2025 Dr. Rahul Jandial shares insights on the transformative power of silence during difficult conversations. He reveals how pauses can build trust and help others process challenging news effectively. The discussion highlights the importance of empathetic communication in medicine and everyday life. Listeners learn how intentional pauses improve mindfulness and decision-making, enhancing their ability to connect with others. Real-life examples showcase resilience in the face of adversity, making the lessons applicable for personal and professional growth.
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Witnessing Patients Rise Not Fall
- Dr. Rahul Jandial has opened thousands of skulls and attended many funerals for his patients.
- He noticed most patients did not collapse; many found dignity and even peace at the end.
Use A Deliberate Pause
- When delivering hard news, pause deliberately for 1–2 minutes to let the person process the information.
- Let silence allow them to run through questions, emotions, and practical concerns before you continue.
Silence Gives The Brain Time
- The brain processes speech faster than we speak, so pauses give listeners a processing buffer.
- Pauses shift listeners from thinking ahead to being present and absorbing what is said.
