The Modern Buddhism Podcast

At Peace with Ourself: How to Create a Healthy Self-Image

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Mar 13, 2025
Gen Jigme, a Resident Teacher at Bodhisattva Kadampa Meditation Center in Brighton, discusses how to break free from negative self-beliefs. He highlights the impact of social media on self-image and the importance of self-acceptance. By nurturing curiosity about our thoughts, we can foster a healthier mindset. The conversation also emphasizes not letting others define our self-worth and the power of empathy to combat feelings of isolation. Ultimately, Gen Jigme inspires listeners to cultivate a compassionate self-dialogue and embrace their true selves.
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INSIGHT

Sources of Disconnection

  • Societal pressures and social media contribute to feelings of inadequacy and not fitting in.
  • These external pressures create a dissonance between our perceived selves and the idealized images we see, leading to anxiety.
INSIGHT

Curated Image vs. Real Self

  • Projecting a curated image on social media doesn't lead to feeling good enough.
  • It increases anxiety and reduces self-esteem because it reinforces the belief that the real self is not acceptable.
ADVICE

Self-Acceptance

  • Accept yourself, even with your shortcomings.
  • Recognize that wanting to improve comes from a good place, not from inherent flaws.
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