Rag 'N' Bone Man discusses how becoming a father has opened him up emotionally. They bond over tattoos and sleep problems. They talk about saying 'no' to projects and the benefits of recording with a group. They explore the power of writing and expressing emotions through music. They discuss starting their music career later in life and share struggles with sleep. They also talk about the excitement and challenges of returning to performing gigs.
Becoming a father has opened Rag 'N' Bone Man up to being more honest about his emotions both with his family and in his music.
Rag and Bone Man discusses the role of music in helping him navigate the challenges of the past year.
Deep dives
Becoming a Parent: Embracing Emotional Vulnerability
Rag and Bone Man, in a conversation with Fern Cotton, reflects on how becoming a parent has transformed his perspective on emotions and influenced his music. He discusses the importance of breaking societal expectations around expressing emotions, especially for men. Parenthood has made him more honest in his songwriting, allowing him to convey his feelings more openly. He also shares how the recording process of his latest album, Life by Misadventure, was impacted by the pandemic and the intense pressure to finish it within a shortened timeframe. Rag and Bone Man embraces the joy and fun of being a parent, highlighting the contrast it brings to the seriousness of life in the music industry.
The Healing Power of Music during Challenging Times
Rag and Bone Man discusses the role of music in helping him navigate the challenges of the past year. He highlights how certain artists and albums, such as Radiohead and Fleet Foxes, have provided him solace and a calm escape during times of anxiety and stress. He emphasizes the importance of finding a calm place in music and the therapeutic effects of listening to soothing and calming tracks. Rag and Bone Man also shares his love for live performances and the excitement of connecting with the audience, while expressing his appreciation for the joy and fun that music brings to our lives.
The Transformative Power of Honesty in Songwriting
Rag and Bone Man reflects on his songwriting journey and the significance of honesty in his music. He discusses the evolution of his approach to songwriting and the decision to incorporate more personal and honest emotions into his lyrics. Rag and Bone Man shares an anecdote about a deeply honest song that he initially hesitated to include on his latest album, but ultimately realized the power of vulnerability and the healing effects it brings. He emphasizes the cathartic nature of writing and how it enables him to process and come to terms with past experiences.
The Impact of Age and Life Experience on Artistic Career
Rag and Bone Man reflects on his artistic career and the impact of age and life experience on his music. Starting his musical journey later in life, he appreciates the perspective and maturity that come with age, allowing him to approach his career and success with a grounded mindset. Rag and Bone Man notes the importance of self-belief in pursuing a career in the arts, even when faced with discouragement or lack of support. He shares his passion for supporting individuals with learning difficulties and autism, highlighting the beauty of making a positive impact through music.
Becoming a father has opened Rag ‘N’ Bone Man - real name Rory - up to being more honest about his emotions both with his family and in his music. In this chat, he and Fearne bond over their shared love of tattoos and inability to sleep well, and talk through how they’ve learnt to say ‘no’ to projects and events they’re just not enthusiastic about.
Rag ‘N’ Bone Man’s album, Life By Misadventure, is out now.
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