This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Using Sexual Energy to Rewire Your Brain with Taylor Johnson | 19
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Quick takeaways
- Believing in the possibility of separating ejaculation and orgasm opens up new avenues for exploration and pleasure.
- Using active and intentional breathing techniques can control and direct sexual pleasure, preventing premature ejaculation.
- Developing a regular self-pleasure practice without reliance on porn or fantasies leads to a grounded connection with one's body and opens doors to new kinds of orgasmic pleasure.
- Making vocal sounds of pleasure enhances intimacy, releases tension, and shifts the focus from orgasm to overall pleasure during sexual experiences.
Deep dives
The Importance of Believing in the Possibility of Separating Ejaculation and Orgasm
Believing in the possibility of separating ejaculation and orgasm is the first step towards experiencing a different sexual paradigm. This belief opens up new avenues for exploration and pleasure.
The Power of Breath in Managing Sexual Pleasure
Using active and intentional breathing techniques can help in controlling and directing sexual pleasure. Deep, conscious breaths can expand pleasure throughout the body, release pressure in the genitals, and prevent premature ejaculation.
The Transformative Effects of Self-Pleasure Practice
Developing a regular self-pleasure practice without the reliance on porn or fantasies can lead to a more grounded and unwavering connection with one's body. Initially, it may take time for the sexual response system to adapt, but over time, the body learns to experience pleasure without external stimuli and opens doors to new kinds of orgasmic pleasure.
The Role of Sound in Sexual Expression
Making vocal sounds of pleasure during sexual experiences can enhance the intimacy and connection between partners. It allows for a deeper expression of pleasure, releases tension, and helps shift the focus from orgasm to overall pleasure.
The Power of Pleasure Practice and Self-Development
Pleasure practice is a powerful tool for personal growth and self-development. By engaging in a regular practice of self-pleasure, individuals can unlock their sexual power and reclaim their body and sovereignty. This practice involves exploring pleasure in a mindful and intentional way, treating the entire body as a sexual organ. By focusing on the whole body and not just the genitals, individuals can experience pleasure on a deeper level and expand their capacity for orgasmic pleasure. Pleasure practice can also lead to healing and emotional releases, allowing individuals to release shame, trauma, and societal conditioning around sexuality. By dedicating time and attention to this practice, individuals can tap into their full sexual potential and experience profound shifts in their overall well-being and vitality.
The Importance of Addressing Past Wounds and Trauma
Addressing past wounds and trauma is essential for opening up to greater sexual pleasure and fulfillment. Many individuals carry wounds and traumas related to their sexuality, whether it be experiences of shame, abuse, or negative conditioning. By doing an inventory of past experiences and seeking support through therapies, workshops, or men's groups, individuals can begin the healing process and release the emotional and energetic blockages that may be inhibiting their sexual expression. By addressing these wounds and traumas, individuals can develop a more loving and respectful relationship with their own bodies and genitals. This shift in perception can positively impact their intimate relationships, creative expression, and overall sense of confidence and empowerment.
Exploring the Potential of Anal Pleasure and Prostate Stimulation
Anal pleasure and prostate stimulation are often overlooked aspects of sexual exploration for both men and women. Many people have misconceptions and fears surrounding anal play, but it can be a source of immense pleasure and expansion. Both men and women can experience pleasure through anal stimulation, as the anus is also wired for sexual pleasure. For men, prostate stimulation can unlock new levels of pleasure and lead to experiences of full-body orgasm and deep emotional connection. By exploring anal pleasure and embracing the vulnerability that comes with it, individuals can expand their sexual horizons, challenge societal taboos, and tap into new realms of pleasure and connection.
Shownotes
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Taylor’s sexual development, experiences and journey into sacred sexuality
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How being deeply present during sex increases pleasure
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The difference between ejaculation and an orgasm in men
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How to use sexual energy to reach a heightened creative state
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The art of co-creating your sexual experience with your partner
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How unlocking your sexual power enhances your life force
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The process of building new neural networks using a pleasure practice
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The power of anal pleasure and how to release the stigma behind it
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And more!
Bio
Taylor Johnson has a passion for combining esoteric wisdom with western practicality to help men create their most thriving sex lives possible. He helps men overcome sexual dysfunction and THRIVE in their lives using profound teachings that combine Yogic, Tantric & Taoist sexual practices. These include breathwork, physical exercise, mindfulness and somatic awareness training.
As someone who used to struggle with premature ejaculation, porn addiction, erectile dysfunction and massive performance anxiety, Taylor sought transformation, spending over $50,000 on trainings and education around the world. He studied Tantric sex and sexual energy transmutation in Thailand, practical sexual health in Atlanta, GA, and now semen retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms.
Taylor believes in mind-blowing, full-body pleasure, deep & meaningful intimacy integration of sex and spirit, and an embodied purpose that aligns sexual integrity with clear purpose and mission in the world.
TimeStamp
00:00:00 - Intro to episode with Taylor Johnson
00:01:12 - This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
00:02:17 - Integrative Sexual Mastery for Men
00:03:33 - How Taylor got into sacred sexuality and details on his sexual development & experiences
00:06:12 - Emotional connection & being deeply present enhances sexual pleasure
00:11:40 - Stay Connected with Layla Martin- Join Email List: https://laylamartin.com/join-list
00:12:22 - How is ejaculation different from orgasm in a man?
00:17:56 - Our Sexual energy is part of taking life force energy up and in, to be in a state of heightened creative energy.
00:23:06 - Co-creative process in holding more pleasure, intimacy, ecstasy and energy.
00:28:33 - Objectification from the heart
00:30:13 - Men’s Sexual Mastery https://laylamartin.com/msm/
00:32:13 - 5 things to start separating ejaculation from orgasm
00:37:39 - Breathwork to prime your system
00:39:30 Vocal cues to exhibit pleasure can be generative in the sexual experience. The sounding tones calms the vagus nerve.
00:41:15 - Sex Magic: https://shopmood.com/categories/shop-all/desire/sex-magic.html
00:45:48 - Self pleasure practices
00:53:29 - The whole body is a sexual organ, including the brain. When you unlock your sexual power it impacts your entire life force
00:54:32 - A pleasure practice is so important as it can rewire your nervous system and build new neural networks
00:57:13 - Point 4: overcoming inner trauma of premature ejaculation
01:02:25 - Anal pleasure and overcoming the stigma
01:10:52 - Magnetic: 21 Days to Erotic Confidence http://laylamartin.com/21-days-to-erotic-confidence/
01:11:50 - Three Rapid round questions: How to introduce prostate pleasure to a partner? What can you do to set up a pleasure practice? What changed in you after doing these practices?
01:20:37 - Doing these practices and doing the work makes you more attractive and helps you to be a better person
01:23:55 - Conclusion
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