Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled Baffled by "Bad" Behavior? Do This First
Aug 13, 2024
In this discussion, expert Janet shares insights on navigating children's challenging behaviors. She addresses alarming parenting concerns, like kids role-playing as 'bad guys' and showing aggression. Janet emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding underlying emotional needs. Through her guidance, parents learn to foster open communication and create a trusting environment. She also highlights how recognizing and validating feelings can help manage 'sneaky' behavior, transforming confusion into connection.
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See Your Child First
- First, see and accept your child's perspective, even if their behavior seems negative.
- Approach their actions with curiosity to understand their needs and build trust.
Sneaking Food
- A four-year-old boy starts sneaking food, escalating from fruit to cookies, ice cream, and even medicine.
- This behavior coincides with a new sibling, suggesting a need for attention and control.
Addressing Sneaking Behavior
- Acknowledge the child's desire to sneak and validate their feelings about wanting the forbidden items.
- Collaborate on solutions and offer support while maintaining boundaries.