The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Most Replayed Moment: Why Does Commitment Feel So Scary? How to Build a Strong, Lasting Relationship
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Oct 24, 2025 In this engaging discussion, relationship expert Paul C. Brunson shares his insights on the complexities of commitment and modern love. He explains why commitment can be intimidating and offers fresh takes on marriage and relationships. Paul emphasizes the importance of clear communication about marriage expectations and suggests making marriage harder to enter but easier to exit. He explores how personal well-being is crucial for relationship success and highlights key qualities to seek in a partner, such as resilience and curiosity.
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Ask About Marriage Early
- Ask early and clearly about marriage and what each partner wants to avoid assumptions and misaligned expectations.
- If one partner wants marriage and the other is indifferent, prioritize values-alignment conversations before deciding.
Make Commitment Meaningful And Flexible
- Marriage should include premarital preparation, conflict tools, and vetting to increase commitment quality.
- Make entering marriage harder but exiting easier to align commitment with skills and autonomy.
'Till Death' Creates Complacency
- Viewing marriage as 'till death do us part' creates complacency and lower satisfaction.
- Recognize the myth to counter entitlement and encourage ongoing effort in relationships.