The High Performance Podcast Mark Manson on why we should start saying no - Handpicked
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Nov 17, 2023 Mark Manson shares insights on parenting, asserting that over-encouragement can stifle resilience in children. He emphasizes praising effort instead of inherent qualities. The dangers of comparing oneself to others are discussed, highlighting how it can hinder progress. Manson also reveals the empowering impact of saying no, suggesting it boosts self-respect and creates better opportunities. Personal anecdotes and reflections add depth to these transformative ideas.
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Praise Effort, Not Identity
- Praise children's efforts, not their inherent qualities.
- Focus on their actions and how they achieved something, rather than simply saying they're 'smart' or 'talented'.
Resilience through Effort
- Praising inherent abilities can hinder resilience development.
- Children need to understand that effort leads to positive outcomes, not just inherent greatness.
Mustaine's Metallica Comparison
- Dave Mustaine, despite Megadeth's success, felt like a failure compared to Metallica.
- This highlights the danger of defining success based on comparisons with others.
