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Love Life with Matthew Hussey
(Rewind): Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Listen To This...
Jul 8, 2022
08:20
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Exploring the dangers of projecting unrealistic qualities onto a crush, pitfalls of idealizing relationships, managing anxiety in early stages of dating, and using 'we'll see' to avoid obsession in early dating.
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- Avoid projecting idealized qualities onto someone in the early stages of dating to prevent unrealistic expectations and anxiety.
- Use 'We'll See' as a powerful phrase to manage dating expectations and keep excitement and anxiety in check.
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Understanding the Pitfalls of Projection in Early Dating Stages
In the podcast episode, the speaker delves into the topic of how projection can negatively impact the early stages of dating. When individuals meet someone they like, they often project idealized qualities onto the other person, creating a skewed perception of who they are. This projection leads to heightened anxiety and unrealistic expectations, putting the person on a pedestal. The speaker emphasizes the importance of staying present in the moment and not getting carried away by projecting a fantasy version onto the other person.
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