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The Melissa Ambrosini Show

MOMENT 9: Unlock Likeability: The Secret to Stop People Interrupting You | Vanessa Van Edwards

Jul 1, 2024
Vanessa Van Edwards, an interpersonal expert and bestselling author, shares tips on how to be heard and perceived as more competent and likeable. Topics include bookending statements, using gestures effectively, checking voicemail, avoiding question inflection, sales mistakes, and gaining respect in any setting.
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  • Using clear structure like finger counts can convey competence and prevent interruptions.
  • Ending statements firmly instead of using a questioning tone enhances perceived competence and engagement.

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Empowering Yourself in Conversations and Meetings

When feeling consistently interrupted in meetings or conversations, it can be challenging and disheartening. It's crucial to have compassion for yourself in such situations and acknowledge that your feelings are valid. If attempts to regain respect or stop interruptions fail, it might signify being around the wrong people. Practically, when speaking, provide a clear structure like using finger counts for key points to convey competence and prevent interruptions.

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