

Uninitiated Men, Male Friendships, and Father Wounds with Bryan Reeves
6 snips Dec 18, 2024
In this conversation, Bryan Reeves, a men’s coach with over a decade in the field, shares his insights on masculinity, fatherhood, and male friendships. He discusses the importance of emotional connections and the impact of father absence on men. The duo explores the need for supportive spaces that encourage vulnerability and trust among men. They also touch on the significance of rites of passage and how authentic mentorship can foster personal growth. Bryan emphasizes the power of camaraderie in overcoming past challenges and nurturing emotional resilience.
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Absent Father
- Bryan Reeves's father left when he was four, profoundly impacting his view of men.
- He later realized he'd idealized his absent father, only to be disappointed when he reconnected as an adult.
Fatherless Nation
- John Kim points out that a fatherless upbringing often leads to distrust of men.
- He reflects on his own experience working with children from fatherless homes.
Two Father Figures
- Reeves grew up with a stepfather who, while present, wrestled with personal demons.
- He felt caught between two models of manhood: a passive pushover and a raging tyrant.