Gay Men Going Deeper

Zero F**ks Given

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Jan 26, 2023
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ADVICE

Choose When To Care

  • Decide when to give a fuck and when not to by testing outcomes rather than reacting.
  • Learn the middle ground instead of swinging between people-pleasing and total indifference.
ANECDOTE

Singing As Edge Work

  • Matt hired a vocal coach after four years of hesitating and sang a cappella despite shaking with fear.
  • He links singing practice to preparing for public speaking and facing humiliation and shame.
ANECDOTE

Missed Solo And Fear Of Judgment

  • Callan has long sung in choirs and missed a solo opportunity because the pandemic canceled the concert.
  • He fears the "crabs in the bucket" judgment and the responsibility of bringing joy to audiences.
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