Ep. 465: Tackle a Topic with Someone Who Resists, Try a New Book Club, and Use Technology Mindfully
Jan 17, 2024
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The guest on this podcast is Rohan Gunatillake, host of the podcast Meditate Story. They discuss starting conversations with someone who resists, an unconventional book club approach, and using technology mindfully. The hosts also talk about overgifting in-laws, neglected senses, and the value of book clubs. Plus, Gretchen shares her solution for countdown clocks and the importance of public speaking skills.
Incorporating mindfulness into technology usage can make it a practical and accessible part of our daily lives.
Identifying and addressing seemingly small problems can greatly enhance happiness and productivity.
Developing public speaking skills from an early age is essential for various situations in life.
Deep dives
Using Technology to Enhance Mindfulness
Rohan Ginnatilica, the host of the Meditative Story podcast, emphasizes the importance of including technology in the practice of mindfulness. He believes that mindfulness should not be limited to traditional meditation settings, but instead adapted to modern digital lifestyles. By exploring ways to incorporate mindfulness into everyday activities such as using smartphones, Ginnatilica suggests that individuals can cultivate mindfulness in a more practical and accessible manner. He encourages people to get curious about the process of distraction and find ways to bring mindfulness into technological interactions, ultimately making it an integral part of our daily lives.
Identifying the Problem: The Countdown Clock Curse
Gretchen Rubin shares her personal struggle with countdown clocks during public speaking engagements. She explains how, despite experiencing numerous failures with countdown clocks, it took her years to finally identify the problem. Upon realizing the need for a visible clock that wouldn't turn off, Rubin purchased a travel alarm clock, which solved her countdown clock dilemma. She encourages individuals to actively identify and address their problems, as even seemingly small changes can greatly enhance their happiness and productivity.
Gold Star: Jack's Impressive Public Speaking Skills
Elizabeth Kraft awards her son, Jack, a gold star for delivering an exceptional speech at school. Jack demonstrated composure and confidence during his presentation, showcasing his ability to speak in front of a large audience. Elizabeth commends the efforts of Jack's school, which emphasizes public speaking skills starting from an early age. She emphasizes the importance of developing this ability as it is essential for various situations in life.
Resource: Five Things to Try Newsletter
Gretchen Rubin introduces her revamped newsletter, which now includes a section called 'Five Things to Try.' This section offers practical tips and strategies to help readers make progress in their personal endeavors. Subscribers receive the newsletter once a month, delivering valuable content to help them achieve their goals and build happier and more fulfilling lives.
Book Recommendations
Gretchen Rubin mentions that she is currently reading 'Class: A memoir' by Stephanie Land and plans to start 'My Own Country' by Abraham Verghese.
We discuss several suggestions to help start a conversation with someone who wants to delay any discussion. We also share a suggestion from a listener about an unconventional approach to a book group, and we talk to Rohan Gunatillake, host of the podcast Meditative Story, about how to use technology more mindfully.
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