43. Being the "Other Person," Part One

Being the “other person” in an affair can be exciting, but it also comes with its own unique challenges. You may sometimes feel like you’re stuck or powerless in your situation. And, because of the taboo nature of the relationship, you might not have anyone to talk to about your feelings besides your affair partner. So, how can you figure out what you really want from your relationship and start changing your circumstances today?

According to Dr. Marie Murphy, you have more power over your situation than you think. However, you need to get clear about your feelings and desires in order to access that power. While simply wishing for things to change won’t help, there are techniques that you can use to navigate your relationship and make choices that will serve your best interests.

In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about the experience of being the “other person” in someone else’s affair. Dr. Murphy describes the various challenges that the “other person” typically faces, the importance of getting clear on how you feel without judging yourself, and the tried-and-true strategies for regaining your power. Stay tuned!