Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Before We Got Together I Identified As Gay
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Dec 9, 2021 
In a heartfelt discussion, a young couple navigates the complexities of their relationship against the backdrop of their evolving identities. One partner, previously identifying as straight, explores his feelings as the other embraces her queer identity. They tackle the challenges of commitment, societal expectations, and the emotional weight of addiction in their families. Through candid conversations, they share insights into the intricacies of love, vulnerability, and the quest for connection while contemplating polyamory and the significance of open dialogue in their journey.
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Defining Selves and Relationship
- The couple are navigating self-discovery and relationship definition while dealing with family legacies.
- They face defining themselves individually and as a unit.
Meeting and Initial Dynamics
- The couple met while working at a preschool, where one was a struggling addict and the other a respected teacher.
- This initial dynamic shaped their self-perceptions and relationship.
Addiction and Family History
- Speaker 1's addiction started young, worsened in college, and was fueled by family history and personal struggles.
- They eventually sought help, demonstrating strength despite difficult circumstances.