New Mindset, Who Dis? 723 - Be disagreeable
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Aug 4, 2025 This discussion boldly explores the benefits of being disagreeable. It highlights how embracing this trait can help filter out the wrong people and attract the right ones. The conversation delves into the importance of expressing authentic thoughts, especially for women facing societal pressures. Listeners learn how disagreeability can enhance personal growth and build genuine relationships. Ultimately, it champions honesty over conformity, encouraging deeper emotional connections and self-respect.
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Agreeability Filters Your Life
- Being agreeable often leads you to attract the wrong people and repel the right ones.
- When you are always agreeable, you hide your true needs and lose your voice in relationships.
Set Boundaries Clearly
- Be disagreeable by defining your boundaries and non-negotiables clearly.
- This self-respect filters out wrong people and attracts those who appreciate you.
Research Supports Disagreeability
- Research by Dana Jack links self-silencing to higher depression and worse mental health, especially in women.
- Another study shows disagreeable people earn more by asking for what they want and negotiating better.
