99. How to fully embrace being single (while also dating)

Aug 27, 2024

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In this episode, you'll learn about the most important thing you can do while single if you want to enjoy dating and learn how to detach from the outcome: embracing your life without a partner. I talk about how to date NATO (not attached to the outcome) and the major steps you can take to lower the stakes in your dating life. I speak from experience as I share the reflection questions I used to dream up an amazing life for myself without a partner... while looking for one simultaneously. Don't skip this one if you're single and want to shift your mindset.

QUESTIONS:

* If I don’t like it here, where should I live?

* How do I want to spend my time? What do I want my lifestyle to be?

* How will I make my life meaningful without a romantic relationship?

* What kind of friend and daughter do I want to be?

* How will I show up for the people in my life?

* How do I want to spend my money and what are my financial goals as a single person?

* If I don’t meet anyone in the next few years, will I choose to have kids on my own?

* If I don’t get married, what does the best version of my life look like?

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