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The Unapologetic Man Podcast

How to Friendzone a Girl And Use Her to Attract Much Hotter Girls (PIVOTS & PRESELECTION)

Apr 3, 2025
Discover how having a girlfriend can actually make you more attractive to other women. Learn the clever strategy of utilizing friendships with women you aren't romantically interested in to draw the attention of hotter prospects. This approach not only boosts your social value but also puts you in the driver’s seat when it comes to romantic pursuits. Get ready to put these techniques into action and transform your dating life!
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Quick takeaways

  • Surrounding yourself with female friends significantly boosts your attractiveness to other women through the psychological effect of pre-selection.
  • Friend-zoning women allows men to explore romantic interests later while maximizing social proof and maintaining control over their dating choices.

Deep dives

The Power of Pre-Selection

Having multiple female friends significantly enhances perceived attractiveness. When a man is seen with attractive women, other women are more likely to be drawn to him due to a psychological phenomenon known as pre-selection. This means that if women observe a man with other women who are interested in him, they automatically assume he possesses qualities that make him desirable. Thus, leveraging friendships with women can be an effective strategy for attracting others, and even a less attractive friend can elevate a man’s status in social settings.

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