Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais

Millions Watched Me Dance — No One Saw My Trauma I Derek Hough

Jul 23, 2025
Derek Hough, a four-time Emmy Award winner and six-time Dancing with the Stars champion, shares his journey of overcoming childhood trauma and defining success beyond perfectionism. He discusses how dance served as his emotional outlet during a health crisis and reflects on the shift from seeking external validation to finding internal alignment. Hough emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, empathy, and daily practices in navigating life’s pressures. His insights reveal how connection and collaboration within the creative community can lead to true fulfillment.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood Trauma and Night Terrors

  • Derek Hough experienced severe bullying before age eight, including physical torture by neighbors.
  • This trauma caused night terrors and fear, shaping his early life significantly.
INSIGHT

Embracing Full Emotional Spectrum

  • Derek realized resisting anger only prolonged his emotional struggle.
  • Allowing himself to feel full spectrum emotions brought liberation and balance.
ANECDOTE

Therapy Symbolism Healing Trauma

  • Derek had a powerful therapy moment symbolizing picking up and comforting his younger self.
  • This helped him integrate past pain and feel support within.
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