The Dov Baron Show 🎧 Part 2 of 2: (ret) Colonel J. Scot Heathman: The Hidden Cost of Commanding With Emotional Armor
J. Scott Heathman Part 2 of 2
🎧 “The Hidden Cost of Commanding With Emotional Armor”
“Is Emotional Armor Making You a Weaker Leader?”
"Is your leadership just bravado dressed as resilience… until your body forces you to face the truth?".
This is not your average war story, nor your average leadership playbook.
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In Part 2 of this conversation with retired U.S. Air Force Colonel and combat pilot J. Scot Heathman, we peel back the mask of command and stare into the abyss where identity, purpose, and performance unravel. What happens when a leader trained to be unbreakable is brought to his knees, not by enemy fire, but by a brain tumor and a body that refuses to obey?
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You’ve been told to push through. You’ve been told to “man up.” You’ve been told to hide the pain. But what if none of that makes you stronger, and it’s killing your credibility?
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💣 This episode is a visceral look at what happens when a commander becomes a casualty—and why that’s the exact moment he becomes a real leader.
🎙️ In this episode:
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Why emotional armor is the greatest liability in today’s leadership
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The devastating truth about how we reward performative strength and punish authenticity
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How losing control of his own body broke J. Scot’s leadership addiction — and forged a new kind of command
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The AIM method for moving through adversity (Acknowledge, Illuminate, Mobilize).
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Why “I’m fine” is the most dangerous lie leaders tell
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How a combat pilot learned to lead with Stoicism, optimism, and bare-knuckle truth
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The life-changing moment when J. Scot’s autistic son taught him what most leaders never learn
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What real courage looks like behind closed doors, not in front of a crowd
If you’re still clinging to old-school command-and-control leadership… this episode will tear it down.
If you want to build a team that would walk through fire with you, this is your blueprint.
🔗 Connect with J. Scot Heathman:
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📧 Scott@commandwithcourage.com
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