The Kink Consultant Ep 17 - Answering Kink Questions and Discovering Dominance with Zach Moore
Feb 12, 2025
Zach Moore, a former personal trainer stepping back into the dating scene after 15 years, shares his journey of exploring kink and dominance. He discusses using the Field app to connect for casual dating and kink exploration. Zach reflects on discovering his dominant side, engaging in primal play, and navigating DDLG dynamics. They also touch on the importance of aftercare, intentional dating, and the evolving landscape of dating apps. His humorous takes and candid stories make for a lively and insightful conversation!
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Newly Single, Exploring Kink
- Zach recently separated after nearly 15 years and is re-entering dating while co-parenting his son.
- He joined Field to find casual, kink-friendly connections and to explore personal kinks.
Dominance Revealed By Discomfort
- Zach discovered he's more comfortable in a dominant role after a vulnerable sub experience felt exposing and non-erotic.
- That visceral reaction clarified his preference for being dominant rather than submissive.
Negotiate Primal Play Intensity
- Treat primal play as a spectrum from gentle growling to full rough animalistic roleplay.
- Discuss beforehand which predator/prey roles and intensity each partner prefers.