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Date Yourself Instead

If they wanted to, THEY WOULD.

Dec 18, 2023
Explore the concept of 'if they wanted to, they would' and the difficulty of accepting the truth that someone may not genuinely like you. Discuss the importance of communication in relationships, recognizing red flags and the need for consistency. Emphasize the importance of knowing your worth and letting someone take the lead.
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Quick takeaways

  • If someone has been talking to you for months or even years without showing signs of commitment, it is likely that they don't actually like you.
  • Consistency is crucial in relationships, and inconsistent behavior is a major red flag that suggests someone is unsure or not fully committed.

Deep dives

The Importance of Clear Communication

It is crucial for someone to make their intentions clear if they genuinely want to commit to a relationship. People can get nervous and avoidant in the early stages of dating, but if someone has been talking to you for months or even years without showing signs of commitment, it is likely that they don't actually like you. It is important to accept that you cannot force someone to like you or to see your value.

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