Turning men into sex warriors with BDSM with Om Rupani | EP39

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Aug 11, 2024

Om Rupani, an author and educator specializing in man-woman relating, sensuality, Tantra, and BDSM, discusses how BDSM serves as a pathway to liberation. He explores the role of emotional containment in relationships and the transformative psychological effects of surrendering control. Om emphasizes the importance of clear communication, boundaries, and trust in BDSM dynamics, addressing how these elements can enhance intimacy. He also delves into the complexities of navigating masculinity and femininity in modern relationships, advocating for personal growth through erotic exploration.

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ADVICE

Containment through Grounding

Ground yourself and come into your body.
This energetic containment is essential for unlocking Eros.

INSIGHT

Speaking to the Body, Not the Mind

Men often try to solve a woman's emotional distress with logic, which can be unhelpful.
Instead, address her nervous system and energy body first for better containment.

ADVICE

Process After Containment

Avoid processing with an uncontained person.
Give containment first, then address any remaining issues.

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Shownotes

How BDSM can be the secret to liberation
What allows humiliation to have an erotic aspect
The reason a man’s first job is to contain a woman
Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand
What led Om to his professional journey with BDSM
The difference between boundaries and control
Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together

Bio

Om Rupani is the author of ⁠Prerequisites to Ecstasy⁠ and has been teaching man-woman relating, sensuality, Tantra & BDSM for over 15 years through both in-person and online workshops worldwide.

His passion is to help men & women create thriving, functional and erotically vibrant relationships through his online courses.

⁠Creating The Dominant Man⁠ is designed to help the modern man come into fuller embodiment of his masculinity, dominance and his leadership — both in the world and in his relationships with women.

And ⁠What Men Want: A Course For Women⁠, which gives the modern woman a template for how she might create a passionate and harmonious relationship with the man who is ready and trained to lead, cherish and adore her.

Om deeply believes that a thriving erotic life needs to be at the center of a happy man-woman dynamic, and he believes we should investigate and embody our Eros in all its nuance and expression. He offers a robust training in the erotic arts, ⁠BDSM Fundamentals And Scene Play Training⁠, which he feels all human beings on the planet should take.

Timestamps

From 1:09:25 to 1:10:35 MOOD ad - 1:10

00:00:29 - Guest introduction

00:03:17 - Om describes what containment actually means

00:07:13 - What Layla has wished for from past partners

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00:10:45 - The importance of addressing upset in a contained state

00:13:25 - What brought Om to his professional journey in BDSM

00:14:20 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

00:18:19 - The biological vulnerability of women

00:20:17 - Om explains what “bad containment” looks like

00:24:24 - What men have lost in the modern world

00:29:15 - Why niceness in a man doesn’t contain a woman

00:33:12 - Om believes men need to reclaim in wolf in them

00:35:32 - The difference between boundaries and control

00:36:08 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass and Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:41:39 - Coming home to your own safety as a woman

00:44:26 - What is a bratty submissive?

00:50:16 - The bitter pill Layla has had to swallow in her healing

00:54:17 - What does it look like to move out of pain and into devotion?

00:63:01 - How fundamental distrust of men keeps women from healthy relationships

01:09:25 - Discover MOOD Sexy Supplements

01:11:03 - Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together

01:15:19 - No one gets a free pass on dealing with their worthiness

01:20:28 - The truth about why a dom can hold safe space for you

01:28:27 - Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand

01:33:12 - Conclusion