Shownotes

• How BDSM can be the secret to liberation

• What allows humiliation to have an erotic aspect

• The reason a man’s first job is to contain a woman

• Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand

• What led Om to his professional journey with BDSM

• The difference between boundaries and control

• Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together 

Bio 

Om Rupani is the author of ⁠Prerequisites to Ecstasy⁠ and has been teaching man-woman relating, sensuality, Tantra & BDSM for over 15 years through both in-person and online workshops worldwide.

His passion is to help men & women create thriving, functional and erotically vibrant relationships through his online courses.

⁠Creating The Dominant Man⁠ is designed to help the modern man come into fuller embodiment of his masculinity, dominance and his leadership — both in the world and in his relationships with women.

And ⁠What Men Want: A Course For Women⁠, which gives the modern woman a template for how she might create a passionate and harmonious relationship with the man who is ready and trained to lead, cherish and adore her.

Om deeply believes that a thriving erotic life needs to be at the center of a happy man-woman dynamic, and he believes we should investigate and embody our Eros in all its nuance and expression. He offers a robust training in the erotic arts, ⁠BDSM Fundamentals And Scene Play Training⁠, which he feels all human beings on the planet should take.

Timestamps

From 1:09:25 to 1:10:35 MOOD ad - 1:10

00:00:29 - Guest introduction

00:03:17 - Om describes what containment actually means

00:07:13 - What Layla has wished for from past partners

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00:10:45 - The importance of addressing upset in a contained state

00:13:25 - What brought Om to his professional journey in BDSM

00:14:20 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:18:19 - The biological vulnerability of women

00:20:17 - Om explains what “bad containment” looks like

00:24:24 - What men have lost in the modern world

00:29:15 - Why niceness in a man doesn’t contain a woman

00:33:12 - Om believes men need to reclaim in wolf in them

00:35:32 - The difference between boundaries and control

00:36:08 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass and Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:41:39 - Coming home to your own safety as a woman

00:44:26 - What is a bratty submissive?

00:50:16 - The bitter pill Layla has had to swallow in her healing

00:54:17 - What does it look like to move out of pain and into devotion?

00:63:01 - How fundamental distrust of men keeps women from healthy relationships

01:09:25 - Discover MOOD Sexy Supplements

01:11:03 - Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together 

01:15:19 - No one gets a free pass on dealing with their worthiness

01:20:28 - The truth about why a dom can hold safe space for you

01:28:27 - Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand

01:33:12 - Conclusion