The Daily The Sunday Read: 'Man to Man'
Nov 22, 2020
Wil S. Hylton, author of the thought-provoking essay "Man to Man" in the New York Times Magazine, shares his tumultuous relationship with his cousin, embroiled in themes of masculinity and violence. He candidly recounts a near-fatal encounter that shook his worldview. The discussion dives into the complex tapestry of familial bonds, exploring loyalty, trauma, and identity. Hylton reflects on the need for redefining masculinity, advocating for healthier models that can break the cycle of violence and isolation.
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The Attack
- Wil S. Hylton recounts the day his cousin tried to kill him, starting with a seemingly innocent request in a guest room.
- The attack was sudden and brutal, leaving Hylton severely injured and his young son to celebrate his birthday amidst family chaos.
Marital Breakdown
- Hylton recounts his marriage's trajectory, from its active beginnings in Texas to its gradual unraveling in the isolating mountains of Virginia.
- The move brought financial strain, exhaustion, and a shift into traditional gender roles, ultimately eroding their connection.
Contrasting Upbringings
- Hylton reflects on his cousin's history of violence, contrasting it with his own upbringing in a peaceful, activist-oriented family in Baltimore.
- He describes his cousin's embrace of violence as "ambient" and "endemic."