The Game Changing Attorney Podcast with Michael Mogill 102. Laura Wasser — The Evolution of Dissolution
"In divorce, we are dealing with the most raw emotions regarding a significant other and children. It’s scary. And in such a confusing and emotional time, they need someone who will tell it to them straight.” - Laura Wasser
- What is the most common reason that marriages end in divorce?
- What was it like having “America’s most feared divorce lawyer” for a father?
- How do Laura and her staff set boundaries with high profile clients?
- Why did Laura start the online divorce platform It’s Over Easy?
- What should someone with wealth who is unhappy in their marriage do if they don’t have a prenup?
The Only Way Out is Through
For nearly 20 years, divorce attorney Laura Wasser has represented some of the highest profile celebrities — from Kim Kardashian to Dr. Dre. But what sets Laura’s practice apart is her dedication to discretion and empathy for all involved.
Based in Los Angeles, her compassion extends beyond high net worth clientele. Laura began It’s Over Easy, a digital platform that offers an affordable option for couples going through divorce. Laura is also the author of “It Doesn’t Have To Be That Way: How to Divorce Without Destroying Your Family or Bankrupting Yourself.”
On this episode, we tap into Laura’s vast knowledge to uncover why most marriages end in divorce and get sage advice on how to help prevent separation. We also dive into the world of celebrity family law, how Laura got her start, and cultivating a culture of discretion.
Speaking Truth
In the art of communication, Laura is a master craftsman. The most agile and effective tool we all possess in relationships is often the hardest to master. Honest communication of raw truths can feel emotionally charged and pose a challenge, even for the fiercest among us. But Laura advises that practicing clear and direct communication is for the best — from the courtroom to the bedroom.
Establishing boundaries with her high-net-worth clients allows Laura to cleanly separate the personal from the professional — a challenging task in family law. She does not offer advice or a shoulder to cry on. Laura prepares her clients frankly and honestly, even with clients who are used to being told “yes.”
Key takeaways:
- Less is more. Quotes can be misconstrued. Stories can be spun out of nothing. To avoid missteps with the media, say less.
- Always clarify. Lay out arguments that lead to the logical and desired conclusion. Never assume all parties share the same knowledge.
- Be kind. It costs attorneys and clients nothing extra and may result in a favorable resolution in less time.