(#303) How to heal a trigger in the moment that it’s happening (everyone should learn this!)
Apr 22, 2024
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Learn practical tips to regulate your nervous system and heal triggers in the moment. Discover the importance of problem-solving from a calm state and identifying root causes. Explore techniques for managing triggers in real-time and creating a fulfilling life.
Regulating emotions during triggers improves well-being by preventing unnecessary negative meanings.
Healing triggers involves self-awareness, calming the nervous system, and addressing root causes for effective problem-solving.
Deep dives
Emotional Regulation Leads to Happier Lives
Learning to regulate emotions and the nervous system during triggers can significantly improve well-being, preventing the creation of unnecessary meanings for unhappiness. Mastering this emotional regulation skill can help in understanding the root causes of negative emotions like anger, panic, and fear, leading to happier and more fulfilling lives.
Practical Steps to Heal Triggers in the Moment
The podcast highlights a detailed step-by-step process for healing triggers as they occur, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and separation from immediate reactions. By giving oneself space and moving the energy through physical activities and deep breathing, individuals can regulate their nervous systems and approach situations from a calmer, more thoughtful state, facilitating better decision-making.
Critical Reflection and Problem-Solving Post-Regulation
After regulating emotions and addressing triggers, the podcast advises taking time to reflect on the root causes and underlying issues. By analyzing triggers and understanding their origins, individuals can develop insights into past resentments, unresolved fears, or present stressors, leading to more effective problem-solving and sustainable solutions. This process encourages a shift towards a 'queen energy' approach for resolving challenges and manifesting positive outcomes.
How much more peace would you have in your life if you had a clear process to heal and take back your power from your triggers? Right before I recorded this episode I was triggered and was able to calm my nervous system, get to the root of my trigger, and take action from a calm and clear state. In this episode, I share my process to regulate your nervous system when you feel angry or anxious in a matter of minutes. Techniques that will get you to the root of your triggers so you can heal from what I call Calm Queen energy.
KEY EPISODE INSIGHTS
Why fight or flight is the worst state to make decisions (or create) from.
Practical tips to regulate your nervous system.
My step by step process to heal triggers.
How to bring awareness and identify the root causes of your triggers (beyond the surface.)
Ways to problem solve from Calm Queen energy.
How long it takes to regulate your nervous system.
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