Ep. #113: Coming Out Late & Trans, Part 1 (Replay from Ep. #27)

Nov 20, 2023

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Robin talks with Holly and JJ about what it means to be transgender, the challenges of navigating relationships and gender reassignment, and why being honest with yourself and embracing who you are should always come first.

In this episode, you will learn…

Holly’s experience of feeling like a prisoner in her body and what it means to be transgender
The importance of a supportive and accepting environment for transgender children
Being in a double-closet and underdressing to alleviate pain of gender dysphoria
Understanding which terms represent gender identity
Holly’s heterosexual relationships and feeling like an imposter
What it was like for Holly to finally come out as transgender at age 50
Gender reassignment and gender affirmation surgeries
Reflecting on coming out: Don’t worry about the reaction of others, fear manifests in many ways, don’t try to hide it because it’s not going to change
Encouragement to be open to possibilities when it comes to your sexuality
The joy of transitioning and being accepted for who you truly are
The importance of being upfront about your identity after you come out
Advice for those worried about coming out to lean into your authentic self
Everybody’s body is different, medical support is crucial for your transition journey

Links to Resources:

JJ (Jessica Jarrard), Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Owner of Rainbow Counseling & Consultation, a group private practice serving the LGBTQ community. www.rainbowcounselingservices.com

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