

Erratic, Unreasonable Behavior
6 snips Nov 19, 2024
A mother grapples with her spirited three-year-old's recent erratic behavior, including anger and impulsivity. Compassionate parenting is emphasized as a key approach to address these challenges. The discussion highlights the emotional struggles children face, particularly during activities like music class. Tips for creating a nurturing environment and understanding the roots of impulsive behavior are shared, fostering empathy and emotional growth in kids.
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Understanding Unreasonable Behavior
- Unreasonable behavior in children stems from emotional impulses and perceived threats, not logic.
- Parents often mistakenly respond with reason, which can escalate the situation.
Responding to Dysregulation
- Strive to understand your child's perspective and accept their behavior as their best attempt in that moment.
- Respond with empathy and a desire to help, rather than with reason or punishment.
A Case of Erratic Behavior
- A parent describes her 3-year-old son's erratic behavior, including screaming, throwing things, and disrupting a music class.
- The son's behavior changes drastically throughout the day, alternating between emotional outbursts and moments of seeming calm.