We Can Do Hard Things Love and Transition, a story from The Moth
Jul 18, 2025
In a heartfelt narrative, a storyteller delves into the challenges and joys of love and transition. The tale weaves through the complexities of coming out and the intricate relationship with a mother. It highlights the powerful journey of self-acceptance and the emotional farewells that accompany such life changes. Balancing humor and poignancy, the story captivates with its universal themes of connection and understanding.
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Tiq Milan's Transition Journey
- Tiq Milan shares his journey coming out gay and later transitioning with his mother's evolving support.
- His mother initially shocked, became a fierce ally and supported him through his top surgery and transition.
Fear and Acceptance in Transition
- Transitioning can result in losing loved ones, causing great fear and uncertainty.
- Practice with pronouns and names reflects love and acceptance growing within relationships.
Final Moments with Mother
- Tiq cared for his mother during her cancer and hospice, sharing intimate moments before her passing.
- His mother’s recognition of his true self was a powerful final connection.