Counseling Talk — A podcast by 9Marks

On Anger Part 2 (Ep. 36)

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Nov 10, 2025
In this conversation, the hosts tackle the complexity of anger and personal transformation. They explore whether anger can completely subside and emphasize the power of prayer as a first response. Sharing Tony's journey of gospel change, they highlight the importance of entrusting grievances to God rather than seeking vengeance. The discussion dives into the deeper roots of anger, including grief, and encourages self-examination and repentance. With practical advice and a focus on community support, they offer hope to those wrestling with chronic anger.
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ANECDOTE

From Rage To Radical Gentleness

  • Garrett describes Tony Gonzalez who came to faith and slowly became gentle and forgiving over time.
  • Tony once threatened vengeance but later served as a bridge across racial divides at his funeral, showing gospel transformation.
INSIGHT

Spirit Fruit Opposes Anger

  • Hayley notes fruit of the Spirit directly counters anger with love, patience, gentleness, and self-control.
  • Remaining in Christ by the Spirit produces these opposite dispositions over time.
ADVICE

Pray And Entrust The Situation To God

  • Pray first and ask God for mercy and help when anger rises.
  • Entrust the person or situation to God and refuse personal vengeance as Romans 12 instructs.
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