The Couples Therapist Couch 250: Encounter-centered Transformation (EcT) with Hedy Schleifer
Jul 7, 2025
Hedy Schleifer, a Master Relationship Builder and motivational speaker, dives into the fascinating world of Encounter-centered Transformation (EcT). She shares how she and her partner turned their relationship into a lab for growth. Topics include the powerful interplay of love and grief, the importance of deep and generative listening, and the impact of nonverbal communication in relationships. Hedy also discusses transformative techniques for couples therapy, emphasizing the vital role of creating safe spaces for authentic expression.
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Re-evaluation Co-counseling Breakthrough
- Hedy and her husband Yumi attended a re-evaluation co-counseling workshop that transformed their understanding of themselves.
- Yumi discovered the distinction between his human essence and survival patterns, leading to profound healing for him.
Brain Transformation via Connection
- Deep connection creates new neural pathways that help move from survival reactions to thoughtful responses.
- This brain transformation happens most powerfully through courageous deep connections.
Begin with Abundant Dreaming
- Start couples therapy by having clients articulate their wildest dreams using a language of abundance.
- Putting a big vision on the horizon shifts focus from conflict to growth and possibility.