The Dr. Hyman Show

Why Self Help Is Not Always Helpful with Susan Piver

Oct 26, 2022
Susan Piver, a New York Times bestselling author and meditation teacher, delves into the intersections of the Enneagram and Buddhism. She critiques traditional self-help, highlighting the importance of self-acceptance and understanding our true selves. The conversation emphasizes the significance of embracing the present and letting go of control for emotional healing. Piver also explores how recognizing our Enneagram types can enhance self-awareness, promote compassion, and aid in navigating life's challenges.
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INSIGHT

Self-Help vs. Wholeness

  • Self-help assumes you're broken and need fixing.
  • Buddhism and the Enneagram posit you're whole but see yourself incorrectly.
ANECDOTE

Dalai Lama on Self-Esteem

  • Sharon Salzberg asked the Dalai Lama how to help students with low self-esteem.
  • He was shocked, asking how one with Buddha nature could dislike themselves.
ADVICE

Receiving vs. Striving

  • Relaxing opens up space to see what's already present, rather than forcing change.
  • Valuable things like love, creativity, and wisdom are received, not worked on.
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