Lead. Win. - An Extreme Ownership Podcast

3 Rules No One Wants to Follow: The Ego Paradox

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Oct 24, 2025
Discover why facing painful truths is essential for growth. Learn how ego can block valuable feedback and the importance of seeking clarity in communication. Hear real-life stories that highlight the need for brutally honest self-assessment. Leaders are encouraged to recognize their own weaknesses, as humility is crucial for effective leadership. Dive into practical tactics that help obtain honest feedback when it’s lacking. Embrace the challenge of naming an uncomfortable truth this week and create an actionable plan for change!
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INSIGHT

Truth Is The Gateway To Improvement

  • Accepting painful truth is the only path to real improvement.
  • If you deny reality, you cannot fix the problem or grow.
ANECDOTE

Debrief Stung Before It Helped

  • Jamie described getting public critique from his commanding officer and initially reacting defensively.
  • He later realized the feedback came from a place of care and mentorship, which helped him improve.
ADVICE

Audit Weaknesses Before Asking For Promotion

  • Do a brutal self-audit of your weaknesses before asking for promotion or new roles.
  • Present your failures and an action plan to show you're ready to earn the opportunity.
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