The Intentional Parents Podcast The Myth of “18 Summers,” Speaking Life, Routines + Comparison (Back-to-School Special)
Aug 27, 2025
As the school year kicks off, the discussion unpacks the myth of '18 summers' and its pressure on parents, emphasizing a mindset of abundance. The power of words in shaping children's identity is highlighted, encouraging mindful communication to promote emotional well-being. Routines are essential, with tips for creating flexible structures that incorporate spiritual practices. Finally, the dangers of comparison are explored, reminding parents to focus on their unique journey and cultivate gratitude for their family's unique dynamics.
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Reframe The '18 Summers' Mindset
- The '18 summers' idea creates a scarcity mindset that pressures parents to manufacture perfect summers.
- Brook and Elizabeth reframe it: you have many seasons and abundant opportunities beyond those summers.
Birthday Break Revealed A Child's Concern
- Elizabeth describes taking a few days alone for her 40th birthday and how her daughter asked, 'Why do you want to be away from us?'
- She used the moment to explain needing solitude while affirming love and excited return.
28 Minutes Of Morning Silence
- Brook shares a family plan where Birdie requested 28 minutes of morning silence to protect her introvert time.
- The household agreed informally to honor that personal boundary without timers, showing personalized routine design.
