

Am I The Asshole for Watching Porn Without Telling My Partner?
Apr 1, 2025
Is it wrong to watch porn without telling your partner? This podcast dives into the murky waters of sexual communication and boundaries in relationships. It highlights the importance of open dialogue about desires and intimacy. Listeners hear about navigating differing sexual drives and the impact of trauma on affection. It also tackles the experiences of sex workers and how historical context shapes our views on intimacy. Tune in for tips on enhancing connections and fostering understanding between partners.
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Open Communication about Porn and Strip Clubs
- Instead of hiding strip club visits and porn use, communicate with your partner.
- Explore the reasons behind the secrecy and consider a more collaborative approach to sex.
Evolution of Sex Work
- Historically, strip clubs offered women financial freedom and a sense of community, though often under male ownership.
- Today, platforms like OnlyFans empower sex workers through individual control.
Communicating Non-Sexual Touch Needs
- Demonstrate desired non-sexual touch to reassure your partner it won't lead to sex.
- Clearly communicate your need for more physical affection without pressure.