EP 190: Stop Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places with Jane

This episode is about feeling worthy and looking for love in other people when you didn’t receive it from a parent or primary caregiver. Today’s caller, Jane, is confused about what to do in her relationship. Her question leads us into a much deeper conversation about why she is experiencing confusion in the first place.

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Every person is worthy of love and attention. But insecurities and limiting beliefs can make us feel that receiving love and attention without giving anything in return can be challenging.

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Consider/Ask Yourself:Are you struggling with making a decision about something like work, or relationship and just can’t seem to get clarity?Have you ever looked for love in the arms, or the bed, of another person?Have you ever had sex with someone you really didn’t want to have sex with but you were longing for love and attention? Or, did you think it was the only way you could keep that person?Jane’s Question: Jane would like guidance on how to move forward in her current romantic relationship.

Jane’s Key Insights and Ahas:Her partner treats her well.She’s had her heart broken a few times in the past.She’s used physical attention to try and gain love.She doesn’t feel worthy of love.Her older sister stopped speaking with her.She doesn’t feel comfortable around her father.

How to Get Over It and On With It:She needs to forgive herself and release any shame for being physical with men to attract love.She needs to get some help working through her wounding.She needs to put a pause on her relationship.She needs to be more committed to herself and her healing.Takeaways:Consider joining my Personal Mastery course for monthly group coaching and live one-day event.Sponsors:Organifi— is an organic superfood supplement line that makes quality, trusted nutrition convenient and accessible. Their Complete Protein meal replacement. If you routinely skip breakfast or are too busy to eat something healthy, Complete Protein is perfect for you. It tastes good and is an investment in your health! Use the code ‘OVERIT’ to receive 20% off your order.

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