Caggie is joined by Paul Brunson, an international matchmaker and relationship guru, to explore his new book, Find Love, and uncover strategies for finding the perfect match in today’s dating landscape.

During their conversation, Paul Brunson shares his unique journey of transitioning from the world of investment banking to becoming a leading authority in the field of relationships and personal connections.

Together, Caggie and Paul explore:

🪐 The importance of choosing a strong partner and how it can significantly impact one's well-being, longevity, and satisfaction in life

🪐 The historical context of partner selection, from pragmatic reasons to the rise of romantic needs in the post-1960s era, driven by women's increased freedom and choice

🪐 The role of self-esteem in relationships and how it affects one's ability to accept different types of partners and avoid unhealthy dynamics

🪐 The concept of trauma bonds and the influence of individuals with negative personality traits, such as the "dark tetrad"

🪐 Paul Brunson's strategy of the "premium effect," where being different in a dating context can lead to increased interest and validation

Tune in for a thought-provoking and inspiring conversation about navigating the complexities of modern love and discovering the right partner for you.

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As we move into 2025, it’s time to refresh your dating intentions and embrace authenticity in your romantic relationships so you can align your goals with your truest self and build connections that matter on Hinge. 

A heartfelt thank you to Hinge for partnering on this episode and helping us champion the values of vulnerability and authenticity in modern dating. #hingepartner