Sex With Emily

How to Make Consent Sexy (Not Awkward) l ft. Sarah Sloane

Aug 8, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, Sarah Sloane, a sex and kink educator at Hashtag Open, shares her expertise on making consent sexy rather than awkward. She emphasizes that consent is fluid and can be revoked at any time, promoting the 'hell yes' standard for enthusiastic consent. The conversation touches on teaching children about body autonomy, the importance of transparency in dating, and navigating relationships post-divorce. Listeners gain insights on ethical porn consumption and how open communication can enhance intimacy and connection.
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ADVICE

Consent Is Essential At Every Stage

  • Consent is essential to all sexual activity, including kissing and making out, not just intercourse.
  • Always ensure consent is enthusiastic, clear, and can be paused or withdrawn at any moment.
ADVICE

Make Consent Sexy

  • Make consent sexy by incorporating it into seduction and foreplay with playful questions.
  • Asking consent out loud can enhance attraction and prevent misunderstandings and rejection.
ADVICE

Consent Is Temporary

  • Consent is temporary and can change moment to moment; check in often with your partner.
  • Never assume previous consent applies indefinitely; active, honest communication is key throughout sex.
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