We Can Do Hard Things 41. LANDING IN LOVE: Is the settling-in phase the best stage of love?
Nov 4, 2021
The hosts share their personal journey from the excitement of falling in love to the comfort of landing in love. They discuss the self-guilt that can overshadow joy in relationships. A meaningful gift becomes a symbol of their connection. The episode also examines how the quirks that frustrate us in our partners can also be the very things that drew us in initially. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the complexities of love and the importance of self-trust and autonomy in nurturing lasting relationships.
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Guilt and Joy
- Elizabeth felt conflicted about pursuing a relationship due to guilt.
- She worried that prioritizing her joy would negatively impact the potential relationship.
Joy's Ruin
- The guilt associated with pursuing joy, not joy itself, ruins things.
- Women, in particular, experience this guilt deeply.
Contagious Joy
- Pursue joy without guilt; it can empower others to do the same.
- Choosing joy creates a ripple effect, giving others permission to choose joy also.