The Level Up English Podcast #341 Are You Being Rude in English?
Sep 10, 2025
Dive into the fascinating world of politeness in English, particularly British expressions. Learn how phrases like 'could I just' and 'would you mind' can soften your requests. The discussion touches on the importance of social etiquette and personal anecdotes that highlight courteous communication. There's a spotlight on seat reservation etiquette and the essence of good manners rooted in empathy. Overall, this engaging conversation invites listeners to reflect on their own communication styles and encourages kindness in everyday interactions.
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Soften Requests With "Could I Just"
- Use "Could I just..." to make requests feel small and non-demanding.
- Add "just" and a short time word (e.g., "a second") to soften your request.
Cycling On Pavement In Torquay
- Michael recounts cycling on a pavement in Torquay and being told to "excuse me" by another cyclist.
- He suggests "Sorry, could I just squeeze by?" would have sounded more polite and effective.
Ask Politely With "Would You Mind"
- Use "Would you mind..." plus a gerund (ing) to give the other person an option and sound polite.
- Pay attention to their tone because "yes"/"no" can be confusing in replies.